Dating thread

[PorkChop]

Ok, so -

She's ridiculously hot, looks like Zooey Deschannel. Went to a local pub, was quite posh in there and had a drink or two before ordering some food. Conversation was going quite well, though you can tell she's been on a fair few dates before - she seemed pretty experienced with the whole dating thing and occasionally that put me off, as it felt I was being made to live up to some sort of expectation or requirement (she kept talking about her previous dates too), but she's fit so that doesn't matter.

Food was expensive as it was a posh place. My bank account softly wept when I saw the menu, but the food tasted good though, had a cracking medium rare steak. We talked about basically everything and there didn't seem to be any awkward silences. She asked how many messages I'd sent out on POF overall, I lied and said about 30 including her (the real figure is over 200 lmao) and she said that she usually gets about 30 messages a day. She was serious. 30 fucking messages. Like I said, she's hot.

We also briefly spoke about WWE haha. She asked what my hobbies were, I said jiujitsu, and explained it was basically submission wrestling. She thought I meant WWE wrestling, and was like "Oh no, you're not into that fake stuff are you? It's so cringeworthy!" I was just like yeah I know, it's terrible right, who would watch such a thing...

Pros:
- She's hot
- Looks great in a dress
- Is funny
- Flirty in her own unique way
- Very traditionally ladylike

Cons:
- Struck me as being somewhat high maintenance
- Lives a fair distance away
- I got the impression that she has some very high standards

Overall though I'd say the night was an 8/10, would see her again.

[HFX]

She isn't a fan of wrestling therefore I forbid you from seeing her without assurances that she'll tickle your pickle on a regular basis.

[Everlong]

Well definitely sounds like she's worth a second date anyway man. The high maintenance/high standards stuff you'll pick up on a bit more as you get to know her. The good thing is you made easy conversation and you have physical attraction, that's a good place to start. Second date's when you can start digging in a little deeper.

Glad it went well

[PorkChop]

Second date confirmed.

[Kein]

Someone who is into fitness is bound to find WWE a bit silly. I personally do a bit myself, I know they go out and destroy their bodies and are performers, but the wrestling itself just doesn't do anything for me. If she likes to work out and is into physical fitness, she will definitely be more drawn to your jiu jitsu than WWE hahaha.

I am surprised on the first date she spoke a fair amount about her previous dates. Again, if she is into physical fitness and looks like it, she could possibly be a little high maintenance like you sensed. I know some girls who are crazy about what they eat and how they dress because of how their body is. That kind of thing can bleed into other aspects of life.

Anyways its cool you two clicked pretty well, at least enough to go on a second date! Just keep throwing the punches and don't be afraid to poke fun. Even though she may have been on a fair number of dates and seems experienced don't you dare put her on a pedestal. You know you are cool, you think shes a damn hottie? SHE wanted to go on a date with you too, you are her level. Don't think any less of yourself.

[Viazon]

looks like Zooey Deschannel.

looks like Zooey Deschannel.

looks like Zooey Deschannel.

looks like Zooey Deschannel.

You. Lucky. Mother. Fucker.

[PorkChop]

You. Lucky. Mother. Fucker.

[SortaCreative]

You. Lucky. Mother. Fucker.

[HFX]

You. Lucky. Mother. Fucker.

So she has a kid eh. I don't know if I'd want to date a chick with a kid. At least not while I'm 24.

[Viazon]

Anyone heard of a site called badoo? My friend has been sending me request for ages to come and join. I have mostly shrugged it off but he kept sending me requests, so just to stop them, I ended signing up. And I'm glad I did.

Got chatting to a few older women. I already have a date with this 40 year old lady tomorrow night. And I am talking to 43 year old lady who wants to meet me next week. Both probably divorced. Both probably to busy looking after their kids to bother with dating. Both probably gagging for it.

To top things off, this sexy Polish girl I used to work with has just gotten back into contact with me through Facebook is chatting to me right now and I swear to God she is flirting.

Could be an interesting couple of months.

[Str8Shooter]

Got chatting to a few older women. I already have a date with this 40 year old lady tomorrow night. And I am talking to 43 year old lady who wants to meet me next week. Both probably divorced. Both probably to busy looking after their kids to bother with dating. Both probably gagging for it.

Fuck's sake Vince....

[Viazon]

Got chatting to a few older women. I already have a date with this 40 year old lady tomorrow night. And I am talking to 43 year old lady who wants to meet me next week. Both probably divorced. Both probably to busy looking after their kids to bother with dating. Both probably gagging for it.

Fuck's sake Vince....

Hey. They are both hot.

[Kein]

I... I guess... Uh... Well no.. I don't know...

[Viazon]

So get this.

This 40 year old lady is engaged but her fiance lives in Florida.

She is currently in the process of getting her visas and everything sorted so she can move to America and get married. She regularly talks to her fiance on Skype. But they have an agreement. While they are living in different countries and before they actually get married and are living together, they are aloud to see other people.

No this lady is just basically after some companionship and no strings fun before she moves to America and get married.

Jackpot.

[Daz]

Words ... I don't have any.

[SortaCreative]

Vince... shes 40. wat.

[Viazon]

What's that gotta do with anything? She's hot!

[Camstud]

I am so fucking glad I came across this thread once again. Vince and Porky, please keep us updated!

Out of interest, if you ever want any suggestions for places in B'ham to go on a date Porky, let me know!

[Everlong]

What's that gotta do with anything? She's hot!

Well for one she's engaged to be married.

[Viazon]

What's that gotta do with anything? She's hot!

Well for one she's engaged to be married.

If that was a problem for her, then I would call it off. But she told me she has an understanding with her fiance. They are both allowed to see other people and she even tells him about it. If she was fully committed it would be a no go.