by lyonssv » Feb 25, '15, 6:54 pm
I don't understand why people just can't stay out of other people's business.
I'm a Christian and I was raised a certain way, but as an adult you obviously come to your own conclusions. My conclusion was that it has no effect on my life if two men love each other or get married. Sames goes for women. Or transgender, or whatever. Absolutely zero effect. And now as a father, if my kids came up to me tomorrow and said they like boys, would I love them any less? No. Do I necessarily agree with that lifestyle? Do I believe it's a choice or people or born that way? It doesn't matter whether I do or not. It has no effect on me and it's none of my business just as it is no one else's business what I believe.
I had the discussion the other day with someone who said they didn't believe a child should be raised by a gay couple. Well, as a cop, I see a lot of shit. And I've had to see countless neglected, hungry, dirty children who are raised in hellacious environments by drugs addict, alcoholics, and people who just don't give a shit. You mean to tell me that's better than gay people raising kids? I call BS on that one.
But on the other side of this fence, to me, it's completely no one's business if someone doesn't agree with someone's lifestyle. AS LONG AS they aren't being hateful, violent, etc (See: Westboro Baptist Church). My father, a very religious man, one of the most genuinely nice people to ever walk this earth, doesn't agree with that lifestyle choice. However, he's never treated anyone gay differently, been hateful towards them, and treats them just as well as he treats everyone else. Just because someone's religious beliefs are what they are, doesn't make them a bigot. There's a fine line to tread. It's his business what he believes and no one else's. Just because someone is Christian doesn't mean they have to be lumped in with the assholes as Westboro. They are a small minutia. That's like saying all Muslims are terrorists. But that's basically what happens nowadays. If someone has a certain belief, they are automatically a bigot, regardless of anything.
Now, the reaction that some people had via twitter to this Walking Dead episode...ridiculous and inappropriate. Keep your opinions to yourself.