So, from the guy that brought you that really stupid "Getting fired over a packet of crisps story", comes another great story / question that i was wondering if you good folks could answer!
I've just started seeing a guy, and he seems nice etc etc boring stuff...cute...etc.....However, i can see pretty soon its gonna be moving to a physical level. A few days ago, the subject of previous sexual partners came up (Insert Joke #1 Here), and i told him the truth, that as I've only come out a year ago, I'd only been in one relationship, and thus only had one sexual partner. Returning the honestly, he said he could't remember the exact number of sexual partners he's had, only that its "Definitely under 20".
Now, not judging, because to be honest i don't really care about anyone's past and what they've done, its up to them and has nothing to do with me, but i am a little worried about his sexual health and what impact that could have on me in the future (Insert #2 here). Would i be out of line if i asked him to get checked out at an STD clinic? I'm not an idiot, the gay community obviously has a stigma when it comes to STD's, and I don't feel comfortable, even with protection, risking anything unless I'm sure hes clean, but i don't want to ruin our chemistry or potential relationship with such a massive subject.
So yeah, thoughts, opinions or advice?