Went back to my dad's home town. Saw some family. Met some of his old friends. This one dude in particular annoyed the fuck out of me though. This guy went to school with my dad, so I had to act polite to him because of that. But he kept getting on my case because I couldn't speak Italian. It was like it was this big abomination.
It was funny at first, sure. But it was literally all he would say whenever he saw me to the point that it pissed me off. At one point, I told my mum to tell him to piss off because he is getting on my nerves. She wouldn't translate it of course and my sister told me to stop being rude. I was being rude apparently. Me getting annoyed at him is supposedly rude, but him saying to me that my grandad would be spinning in his grave if he knew is apparently a totally acceptable thing to say to a stranger. He knew my grandad you see, and he happened to have to same name as me. He said he thought it was unimaginable that we shared the same name, yet I couldn't speak Italian. Like that even matters.
Sure, my whole family is Italian. As far as I know, that's how far back my ancestry goes. My mothers parents immigrated from Italy, as did my dad. Sure, I identify as Italian sometimes. We grew up as a typical Italian household and we observed a lot of Italian traditions. I support the Italian national team and yeah, I have always thought it would be nice if I learned Italian. I have always wanted to. But I don't think I HAVE to. Because at the end of the day, I am English. This is the country I was born in. This is the country I was raised in. This is the country I am from. Yeah, it would great to learned Italian and I do intend to learn it some time. But the only language anyone should have to learn is the language of the country I live in.
I really wanted to tell this guy to fuck off but they had to be nice to him because he is a friend of my dads and he owned a jewellery store and he was giving my sister a good deal on some earrings. To them, he was being nice and kind, but to me he was being condescending and judgmental and just all round annoying.