SKS wrote:Take all the hard classes you can, the earlier the better. The knowledge is still fresh in your mind.
I agree with this to an extent. The last thing you want is to be academically overwhelmed in your first semester. So while you should get some of the requirements you know you're going to have to fulfill (for me it was science stuff, as an english major) you should probably try to fulfill those within your first couple semesters, but don't feel like you're taking too many hard classes and that you can't enjoy yourself.
A few general pieces of advice:
*Get involved with some kind of student organization. It helps to shrink the campus and is a great way to meet people. Whether it's intramural sports, some kind of club, fraternity, whatever, it's the biggest recommendation I have.
*Keep your dorm door open whenever you're not sleeping/doing homework/busy. It encourages people to come by and say hi and you'll get invited out do do a lot more stuff. Especially in the first couple weeks, try not to turn down any invitations to do stuff.
*On the same token, don't be afraid to initiate contact with other people. Introduce yourself to everyone on your floor the first day, ask people if they wanna grab lunch or dinner or whatever, get people together to go out and do stuff.
*GO TO CLASS. You (or your parents or your scholarship) are paying lots of money to be in school. Go to school. If it turns out that some of the lectures don't really do anything other than teach out of the book then you can start judging for yourself whether you need to be there, but when you're first starting off, go to all your classes, and sit close to the front so it forces you to pay attention. Once you get in the habit of skipping classes it's really hard to break it.
*Take care of yourself. You're going to go out and party a lot, but you can avoid putting on the Freshman 15 (or more) in beer weight by eating well, getting enough sleep and keeping a good exercise regimen. Your student ID will probably get you in to campus gyms for free. Take advantage of that.
*Again, don't underestimate the importance of sleep. When classes get tough and you start feeling like you have to cram, it might feel as though it's going to be impossible to get enough sleep, but trust me, there comes a point when you're up studying late and there's no point in continuing.
*When you go out, know when to stop drinking. If the room starts spinning, you're way past the point of having had enough
It's going to be rough at first if you're not experienced with your own tolerance, but once you've figured it out, always know when to stop. Additionally, take advantage of any safe ride/bus/cab services that your university has when needed.
*NEVER let girls walk home alone from parties, whether or not they're intoxicated. It's really shitty that this even has to be an actual piece of advice, but the fact is that you can never be 100 percent sure of their safety when they're walking home alone after dark. Whether you walk them yourself or make sure that they have a friend to walk with them, don't let them walk home alone.
If I can think of any more I'll let you know.