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Hanley! wrote:Anyone who says it is a choice is getting all the neg rep.
Hanley! wrote:I'm just giving fair warning. I try to be polite in these discussions when I can, but if anyone in 2015 is stupid enough to say that people make the choice to be gay/straight/anything else, then they deserve to be judged for being that close-minded.
We all grew up, went through adolescence and ended up gay/straight/whatever, and should all therefore know first hand that no choice was involved along the way. And given that there are no real societal benefits for being anything other than straight, it's pretty absurd to think that those falling outside that group made an active choice to do so.
Circled Square wrote:Hanley! wrote:I'm just giving fair warning. I try to be polite in these discussions when I can, but if anyone in 2015 is stupid enough to say that people make the choice to be gay/straight/anything else, then they deserve to be judged for being that close-minded.
We all grew up, went through adolescence and ended up gay/straight/whatever, and should all therefore know first hand that no choice was involved along the way. And given that there are no real societal benefits for being anything other than straight, it's pretty absurd to think that those falling outside that group made an active choice to do so.
The societal benefits of being straight will soon go the way of the dodo. Like how being white use to be an advantage, not anymore with affirmative action.
EmperorWu wrote:Circled Square wrote:Hanley! wrote:I'm just giving fair warning. I try to be polite in these discussions when I can, but if anyone in 2015 is stupid enough to say that people make the choice to be gay/straight/anything else, then they deserve to be judged for being that close-minded.
We all grew up, went through adolescence and ended up gay/straight/whatever, and should all therefore know first hand that no choice was involved along the way. And given that there are no real societal benefits for being anything other than straight, it's pretty absurd to think that those falling outside that group made an active choice to do so.
The societal benefits of being straight will soon go the way of the dodo. Like how being white use to be an advantage, not anymore with affirmative action.
Holy shit I like you dude, but fuck you make me laugh some times.
EmperorWu wrote:As much as I disagree with most of Squared Circle's opinions I appreciate that he's willing to stand up and speak his mind in a place where he's clearly the minority. At the end of the day these discussions are better had than not, and without him voicing the other side these topics wouldn't be getting to the multi-page range. Having said that, you have to know your opinions are pretty out there compared to most people around here. And even though you don't seem to think so, they could been seen as pretty insulting. So don't be upset when people give you shit back.
Str8Shooter wrote:I don't understand the logic behind the thought process that you have to "choose" to be homosexual.
I mean when I was 12 or 13 I sure as hell don't remember having a moment where I had to decide for myself, "hmm, well time to choose, should I like girls or should I like guys?"
Circled Square wrote:Str8Shooter wrote:I don't understand the logic behind the thought process that you have to "choose" to be homosexual.
I mean when I was 12 or 13 I sure as hell don't remember having a moment where I had to decide for myself, "hmm, well time to choose, should I like girls or should I like guys?"Circled Square wrote:The choice happens rarely, but it does happen - "I hate girls, they've caused me so much grief, therefore I'm turning homosexual".
Circled Square wrote:EmperorWu wrote:Circled Square wrote:Hanley! wrote:I'm just giving fair warning. I try to be polite in these discussions when I can, but if anyone in 2015 is stupid enough to say that people make the choice to be gay/straight/anything else, then they deserve to be judged for being that close-minded.
We all grew up, went through adolescence and ended up gay/straight/whatever, and should all therefore know first hand that no choice was involved along the way. And given that there are no real societal benefits for being anything other than straight, it's pretty absurd to think that those falling outside that group made an active choice to do so.
The societal benefits of being straight will soon go the way of the dodo. Like how being white use to be an advantage, not anymore with affirmative action.
Holy shit I like you dude, but fuck you make me laugh some times.
I wish I was as dead-set on what's right and what's wrong in the world. It would make my life a lot easier.
It's literally admitting to giving minorities more chances to shine than the people who were born there.
Circled Square wrote:Str8Shooter wrote:I don't understand the logic behind the thought process that you have to "choose" to be homosexual.
I mean when I was 12 or 13 I sure as hell don't remember having a moment where I had to decide for myself, "hmm, well time to choose, should I like girls or should I like guys?"
The choice happens rarely, but it does happen - "I hate girls, they've caused me so much grief, therefore I'm turning homosexual". That logic applies to very few people of course. Some people were raped or molested as a kid and have sexual identity issues. It's not always black & white.
Str8Shooter wrote:Circled Square wrote:Str8Shooter wrote:I don't understand the logic behind the thought process that you have to "choose" to be homosexual.
I mean when I was 12 or 13 I sure as hell don't remember having a moment where I had to decide for myself, "hmm, well time to choose, should I like girls or should I like guys?"Circled Square wrote:The choice happens rarely, but it does happen - "I hate girls, they've caused me so much grief, therefore I'm turning homosexual".
What!? I'm pretty sure there isn't a person out there who "turned gay" because girls gave them too much grief.
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