Westcoastvibes wrote:^ what kind of man chooses porn over the real thing? No offense intended just wondering what his motivation would be and why pass up the real deal to watch the same thing on a screen.
Could be some degree of porn addiction, which can really play havoc on relationships. I only heard that this was even a thing relatively recently, but apparently a bunch of people suffer from it. They can't prevent themselves from watching porn, they stop being aroused by regular sexual scenarios and their sex drive can really suffer. In circumstances like that, if the partner is upset, I think that's completely warranted.
My partner is perfectly fine with the idea of porn. She thinks most of it out there is kinda crap and doesn't understand how people get turned on by it (which is a point of view I can understand), but she has no problem with the good stuff. But then, I'd never choose it over the real thing.