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Re: Porn in relationships

Postby Hanley! » Feb 07, '14, 1:07 pm

Westcoastvibes wrote:^ what kind of man chooses porn over the real thing? No offense intended just wondering what his motivation would be and why pass up the real deal to watch the same thing on a screen.


Could be some degree of porn addiction, which can really play havoc on relationships. I only heard that this was even a thing relatively recently, but apparently a bunch of people suffer from it. They can't prevent themselves from watching porn, they stop being aroused by regular sexual scenarios and their sex drive can really suffer. In circumstances like that, if the partner is upset, I think that's completely warranted.

My partner is perfectly fine with the idea of porn. She thinks most of it out there is kinda crap and doesn't understand how people get turned on by it (which is a point of view I can understand), but she has no problem with the good stuff. But then, I'd never choose it over the real thing.
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Re: Porn in relationships

Postby Viazon » Feb 07, '14, 2:00 pm

When I was fairly young, during a time when I had pictures of half naked celebrities plastered all over my bedroom wall. This girl I was kind of seeing got annoyed because I had these pictures. She said if we were dating then she should be the only girl I was attracted too. I mean, you gotta be pretty insecure to be jealous of harmless pics of celebrities. So I can't imagine that she would have ever been fond of me watching porn.

One girlfriend though had admitted to frequently watching porn, which I admit was a bit of a turn on. I think it's harmless and if it's something that two people can share in a relationship, then even better. If you have a girlfriend though and knew you would be getting the real thing, then porn seems a bit unnecessary. As no one watches porn for the story lines.
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Re: Porn in relationships

Postby Daz » Feb 07, '14, 2:06 pm

Viazon wrote:When I was fairly young, during a time when I had pictures of half naked celebrities plastered all over my bedroom wall. This girl I was kind of seeing got annoyed because I had these pictures. She said if we were dating then she should be the only girl I was attracted too. I mean, you gotta be pretty insecure to be jealous of harmless pics of celebrities. So I can't imagine that she would have ever been fond of me watching porn.

One girlfriend though had admitted to frequently watching porn, which I admit was a bit of a turn on. I think it's harmless and if it's something that two people can share in a relationship, then even better. If you have a girlfriend though and knew you would be getting the real thing, then porn seems a bit unnecessary. As no one watches porn for the story lines.


You must have totally missed my post.
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Re: Porn in relationships

Postby Viazon » Feb 07, '14, 2:13 pm

Daz wrote:
Viazon wrote:When I was fairly young, during a time when I had pictures of half naked celebrities plastered all over my bedroom wall. This girl I was kind of seeing got annoyed because I had these pictures. She said if we were dating then she should be the only girl I was attracted too. I mean, you gotta be pretty insecure to be jealous of harmless pics of celebrities. So I can't imagine that she would have ever been fond of me watching porn.

One girlfriend though had admitted to frequently watching porn, which I admit was a bit of a turn on. I think it's harmless and if it's something that two people can share in a relationship, then even better. If you have a girlfriend though and knew you would be getting the real thing, then porn seems a bit unnecessary. As no one watches porn for the story lines.


You must have totally missed my post.


It's very likely that I did. i just read the original post then replied.
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Re: Porn in relationships

Postby Twister » Feb 08, '14, 2:28 am

PorkChop wrote:
Locke wrote:
PorkChop wrote:
Westcoastvibes wrote:^ what kind of man chooses porn over the real thing? No offense intended just wondering what his motivation would be and why pass up the real deal to watch the same thing on a screen.

If I had to knock one out over Sasha Grey or bang Honey Boo Boo's mum, I'd choose the first option every time.


Dafuq you sayin'..? That Twister is Honey Boo Boo's mom?

No haha. I was saying that if Honey Boo Boo's mum offered me sex, I'd rather turn it down and just watch porn instead.

Twister is the forum milf, I would never speak bad of her.


:rotf2 Forum milf, not inclined to agree but I'll take that.
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Re: Porn in relationships

Postby blackparade » Feb 08, '14, 5:59 am

My wife is one of those "I think it's cheating" types, and discourages it. On the other hand, she knows what I like and makes sure to make the bedroom interesting enough to where I don't need to watch it. She won't watch it, and it's not exactly something I bring up in random conversation to find out why.
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Re: Porn in relationships

Postby Buck » Feb 08, '14, 2:47 pm

My girlfriend doesn't like me watching porn unless she's watching it with me.
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Re: Porn in relationships

Postby Locke » Feb 08, '14, 8:07 pm

wot mammy donno don't hoit her.
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Re: Porn in relationships

Postby Westcoastvibes » Feb 08, '14, 9:16 pm

Locke wrote:wot mammy donno don't hoit her.

Until you forget to clear your browser history
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Re: Porn in relationships

Postby SKS » Feb 08, '14, 10:54 pm

Westcoastvibes wrote:
Locke wrote:wot mammy donno don't hoit her.

Until you forget to clear your browser history


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Re: Porn in relationships

Postby Westcoastvibes » Feb 08, '14, 11:13 pm

SKS wrote:
Westcoastvibes wrote:
Locke wrote:wot mammy donno don't hoit her.

Until you forget to clear your browser history


Chrome Incognito man

Yes sir, I know that little trick to :cheers
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Re: Porn in relationships

Postby PorkChop » Feb 09, '14, 7:55 am

I guess it is kind of cheating. When I use my right hand, my left gets jealous.
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