Are you allowed to hook up with the sister of your cousins husband?

[AkydefGoldberg]

I think you're OK in regards to relations, not a big deal tbh. It just depends what you want and which avenue is the best one.

If you want something long-term then on paper, it seems neither is that option with the 44-year-old (sure she's a MILF) or the 19-year-old will provide that as Hanley has reliably noted in his posts.

If you want fun, I'd be tempted to try out the 44-year-old, leave the young 'un to enjoy University (but still remain friends) and who knows, you might find someone else to settle down with.

[Kein]

44 year old sounds like its more for fun. She might get a thrill being with a younger guy.

19 year old I would be a little more careful with just because of how close they are, I find it a little weird she's the sister of your cousins now husband, but that's just me. I wouldn't do it, but I don't think its really a problem for others to either. If you are close to your cousin, that's why I would maybe tread a little more lightly, if you are not that close to your cousin I wouldn't worry nearly as much. It's also good to take these opportunities to expand your network though.

I will second Hanley!'s notion about the age difference. 7 years isn't bad, but the stages of life is what needs consideration.

[Kyle]

7 years isn't that great a difference, but it's different when it's 39-32 than with 26-19. 19 year-olds have very different priorities than those 7 years older, even if she seems more mature. I was mature as a 19 year-old but personally, a 26-30 year old would hate to go out with me.

[Locke]

I don't even.. My life never lead me anywhere this interesting by a long, very long shot. FML

[SKS]