When it comes to ameliorating the problem in Syria, it seems like we've restricted ourselves to either a) supporting the rebels or b) supporting Assad. Unsurprisingly, both are as bad each other. Some of the Syrian opposition are extremists and nationalist fundamentalists that have been exposed in committing unparalleled acts of inhumanity, such as the beheading and murder of Christians and other foreigners. They are not fighting to dethrone Assad and restore the country's sovereignty - they're lunatics who are mindlessly killing the civilian population. Assad is a despotic dictator, whose family has ruled the state for well over 20 years, and has pretty committed the same atrocities the rebels have.
In terms of outside influence, Russia and the United States seem to be the most vocal here. Russia supports Assad and the US support the rebels. Russia see a strong Syrian alliance as a valuable political weapon in a very resourceful and strategic geographic region and the US are merely trying to overthrow Assad's regime and replace it with a more pro-Western government for reasons of resources and stability.
While hundreds of people get slaughtered in Syria everyday, we've got the US and Russia basically having aimless, empty diplomatic discussions that ultimately get nowhere. And it's staggering because the best way to solve Syria is simply for both countries to take it on the chin and admit they're aiding, funding, and supporting lunatics. It's that simple. Russia and the US need to agree that both sides are as bad as each other and they both need to work diplomatically (along with the other members on the UN Security Council) to install a new government. That means, overthrow Assad and exile the rebels. Of course such an implementation will be difficult and it will require a lot of time and effort, but it's better than the crap that is unfolding in Syria now. Currently, Syria is on the verge of becoming a failed state. There is no order and stability anymore. The stories you read, the videos you see - it is downright heartbreaking that this still going on. The problem is, both the US and Russia think they would be conceding to power and substanding themselves if one of the country's came out and said "it's time to work together". It's international relations 101, really. This tainted Cold War mentality both nations are still holding is blocking any rational and logical outcome to this international crisis.
That is my proposition, anyway. What are your two cents? How can we solve Syria? At this stage, it is all but too likely Assad will win the 2014 election (unconstitutionally, of course), and this will create even more instability in the nation, perhaps leading 2014 as being Syria's deadliest year yet.