GNR wrote:Joey
I too am going to stay the hell out of this argument, but the reason people call you Joey is not because they're trying to talk you like a child, but because it was your username.
Yep. If your username is Joey, I'll call you Joey. The only person here who isn't really known by their username is Tim, and that's only because it's quicker to type than reyflinfury619.
I'll address each of your points individually.
- It's not just an issue now. You didn't endear yourself to people on the old board due to constant negativity and thread disruption, but no one could take it up with you as 1) it would end up going round in circles, or 2) Bryan would chime in and lock/delete/ban/whatever.
- Already addressed the 'Joey' thing.
- People 'have rotten things to say about you' as they don't like your posts. As I said, this is because they are negative, patronising and tiresome. No one has any undeserved reputations here. It's not like high school where you can be a nice guy, but unpopular because of the way you dress. As someone who boasts visiting several other forums over the span of many years, you should know more than anyone that people's opinions of you are based on your posts. If you post good things, people will like you. If you patronise others and ruin the forum experience for them, they won't. The only person who has caused people to have a negative perception of you is yourself.
- I won't ban you. Like you said, you've done nothing to get you banned. Sure, you came across very patronising, but whatever. I'm not as uptight as Crissay or Bryan and don't have an itchy trigger finger, but that doesn't mean I won't call you out on your shit. I'd do the same if I was a regular user. I did on the old forum, and will do now. The only difference is the colour of my username.
- Yeah, some users may have quit. I don't know who Kenan was but I remember HandyRandy, and I also remember that while he was a nice guy 20% of the time, the other 80% he was a miserable and bitter poster who always saw the negative side of everything. He'd disrupt good threads, and people began to dislike him. Inevitably, this will lead to a few people mocking him (i.e, Cena54) although I don't condone that. I'll call anyone out on their shit, but I won't mock or belittle them in an argument or debate.
- I don't recall anyone claiming you single-handedly reduced the site's activity. I think you're exaggerating things to make yourself look like a victim, now. Pete said he didn't post in the TNA section as your posts drove him away, which I can understand. Tim and Hanley did the same when metalmessiah was rampant in the WWE Discussion. I almost did the same. One person said they stopped posting because of you. One person. Not the entire site.
I won't reply to you anymore after this, as I know from personal experience and from watching many others do the same, arguing with you goes round in endless circles. All I ask is don't be a dick - don't burst in here putting other users down by patronising them. It sucks the atmosphere out of threads, and makes you look like an ass. It's a great community here, so don't be a dick and spoil it for everyone else.